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starting from childhood when parents compare their child’s grades and

abilities with their peers. Inadequacy and self-doubt may result from this,

which might prevent one from loving oneself. For instance, the placement

process I went through was challenging, and despite receiving offers from
reputed companies, I found myself dissatisfied due to societal and peer

pressure. I blamed myself for being lazy in the

past, but I eventually realized that things will

unfold in their own time, and the job I accepted
chose me because they appreciated my personality.

Instead of dwelling on my perceived shortcomings,

I chose to embrace this newopportunity with gratitude
and acceptance.

To foster self-love, it's essential to recognize that your
unique qualities and experiences make you who you are.

Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your

own goals, values, and strengths. Celebrate your

accomplishments and embrace your imperfections, as
they are part of what makes you unique. Remember,

the only person you should be comparing yourself to is

the person you were yesterday.

Prioritizing yourself first is not selfish. Rather, it indicates that you are taking

better care of yourself in a way that allows you to do more for others. It's easy

to become concerned with what other people think of you or what society
deems significant. But if we focus on ourselves and our happiness, we will

realize that there are things in this world that are more important than what

other people think of us. Self-love entails treating oneself with kindness and
compassion. This involves accepting both your successes as well as your

shortcomings.

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